If you are thinking of heading to your first gay massage in London, you might be a little apprehensive about your visit. I know how nerve-wracking it can be, and many men end up putting it off because they simply don’t have the coverage.

To help you conquer your fears, I have taken a closer look to help you get ready.

1. Get yourself into the right mindset

Before your visit, you need to ensure you are in the right mindset. If you are facing a barrier, such as confusion regarding your sexuality, lack of experience, or body issues, then it is important to rationalise these fears.

One of the best ways to get over this is to ask yourself three questions:

• What’s the worst that could happen?
• What’s the best thing that could happen?
• What is the most likely scenario?

2. Book in advance

Once you are ready to book your gay massage in London, make sure you book well in advance. This will ensure that you have enough time to prepare yourself while also ensuring your masseuse will be able to prepare.

3. Don’t eat, drink, or smoke beforehand

A gay massage will involve a lot of physical pressure and close contact. That is why it is always a good idea to avoid eating a large meal before your appointment and to ensure you stay hydrated. You should also avoid smoking just before, as the massage could result in the toxins being absorbed into your body faster.

4. Shower beforehand

Another top tip before your first gay massage is to have a shower beforehand. This not only helps to ensure you are fresh, but it can also loosen your muscles, making the massage more effective and allowing your skin to absorb any oils and lotions more effectively.